›› Meditation
Meditation has been
growing in popularity in the West, and studies have shown that it has
many benefits. These include stress reduction, which can lower the
chance of high blood pressure, stroke and heart attack; providing a
break in the day, thus refreshing the meditator who then has renewed
energy and attention to put to whatever tasks may be at hand;
interrupting a person's chronic patterns of thought, some of which are
quite negative and not good for overall health and productivity; and
bringing a person's attention more to the present day so that he or she
can enjoy what's happening now more instead of being stuck worrying
about past problems. These are just some of the benefits meditation can
have.
There's a rub though. For many, it is difficult to sit still, focusing
attention on breathing in and out. Some of us get distracted easily, or
we get achy and itchy. It's just not always easy to stop, sit still and
focus our attention on something simple, like our breath or on a
pleasant scene, which are some of the methods suggested for beginners.
What to do? One possibility is to join a group that is led by a person
who is skilled in leading meditation. Some people know how to produce
just the right rhythm and tone in their voice so that those learning
meditation can actually focus and begin to enjoy some of the benefits
of the practice.
Another suggestion is to tell yourself that whatever is going on is OK.
Give yourself permission to be a very bad meditator. Sometimes this
sort of direction is all a person needs to relax and start to enjoy the
process of meditating.
Another strategy, which has brought success to many, is to meditate to
special music and sounds designed specifically to help you get into a
meditative state. Using earphones makes the experience quite powerful.
The best thing to do is to get recommendations from friends who've used
CDs to enhance their meditation. Absent that, you'll just have to take
the plunge and buy a few. Some may be disappointing, but you're likely
to find at least one CD that's effective for you if you buy three or
four of them. Andrew Weil is a good place to begin if you're looking
for a healing CD to listen to.
Times for these meditation sessions on CD can range from 10 minutes to
an hour. You can work yourself up to the longer sessions gradually.
As for the ones that don't work for you? You can give them away at
office holiday sales or sell them at garage sales or on Ebay. The guide
whose voice irritates you just might be the one to lead your neighbor
to Nirvana. You never know.
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